The birth chart is an intelligent map of your existence, but this map is not supposed to be all about success. Usually, 80% of the charts are balanced; if you aren't successful in one matter, there is a potential for success in another topic in your chart. Naturally, if you recognize this potential, you can change the game in your favor.
This article is about the emotional relationships of a person whom I consulted on December 25, a 40-year-old single woman whose love life was vital to her. We spent much time discussing this issue during the private chart interpretation session.
I want to mention three crucial points of this person's birth chart. These 3 points start from the person herself and continue until the issue of not getting married.
1. If you know yourself, your choice will be successful.
Knowing who you are and what you want from a romantic relationship is essential to your choice. But your birth chart always speaks of the deepest layers of your existence.
In the native birth chart, the moon is in the first house, which is the house of personality, so this person tends to show behaviors of this planet, i.e., the desire to care, sensitivity, and kindness.
Gemini indicates the descending part of her personality, which means there is a desire for communication and verbal connection.
The important thing is that damage to Venus creates a strict view, people with malefic Venus find fault with themselves and others, and their idea of love is often associated with attachment or impulsive leaving.
Due to Venus's placement in the mother's house, most of these malefic effects are caused by the mother and living in the father's house! All these things were not even 10% of this person's personality analysis. Still, with deep knowledge and understanding of yourself, you can understand what qualities you should look for in a partner.
2. When Saturn obstacles a relationship!
Saturn's placement is in the house of love, the 5th house. Saturn is also affected by the damage of Venus. The 5th house shows the situations of love relationships! Saturn is an aged planet. According to my client, most of his relationships occurred with people with a significant age difference (older than him). Saturn's presence was a distance barrier in her emotional life. It's interesting to know that her current relationship with someone with an age difference of more than 20 years was a long-distance relationship. When we know what potential and situation exist in the house of love and at the same time know ourselves and pay attention to periods, we can change the case in our favor!
3. Saturn is so headstrong; no marriage!
The ruler of the house of marriage is Jupiter, along with two planets, and Ketu is in the 6th house; this is the first potential of non-marriage in this chart. But the ultimate power belongs to Saturn, which aspect from the 5th house to marriage house in a harmed circumstances. This condition is the strong potential of celibacy or non-marriage.
Is it possible to do something now?
I ask you, if this person knew herself and used any single situation and entered into a relationship with a person who was compatible with him (according to the birth chart and the BCRC method), Couldn't she have a successful marriage after two years and experiencing a successful relationship at an appropriate time (calculating the moment of marriage)?
Of course, it could be, but this is a path in which there is a lot of suffering; for example, few people are willing to sacrifice today's pleasure for the path of future happiness. Fortunately, I have also examined the birth charts of such people in the past.
When we get help from the birth chart, we must follow a proper procedure. It doesn't matter whether it's about love or choosing a career; the way is always the same. The first step in my exclusive method is self-knowledge. You must know who you are. At whatever age you are, you should have complete knowledge of weaknesses, strengths, threats, and opportunities. This knowledge is easily obtainable by detecting planets and house's state in your birth chart.
The second step is to see ourselves in the dimensions of today's life; we are the children of the present. In the birth chart, by dividing the periods, we can understand our today's tendencies and future potential.
The third step is to make a decision based on this knowledge and make changes in our lives.
What is the status of the house of love (5) and the house of marriage (7) in your birth chart?